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Pearl Grace Life, A Schoolboy's Dream

A Schoolboy’s Dream

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A Schoolboy’s Dream

Pearl Grace Life, A schoolboy's dreamSometimes you hear a story that perfectly exemplifies what you are going through.

Well, the other day I was playing imaginary games with Ealy.

Most of the food that I give him, take on different characters and embark on a variety of incredible adventures between the time of leaving his plate and reaching his gob.

This morning was no different. His slice of toast was a scorpion that magically transformed into a helicopter when it reached space. (Pretty, cool, huh?!)

Anyway, somewhere between burning the toast and tripping over Riley with a cup of peppermint tea, I thought about how amazing Ealy’s imagination is. To him everything and anything is possible and his dreams have no bounds.

In that moment I felt compelled to write about it but first I knew I had a canine to walk.

As I headed out the door I stuck my headphones in my ears and an audio program began to play.

It was playing Darren Hardy’s Living Your Best Year EverIt was approaching the end of the recording where Darren tells a story about a schoolboy’s dream. The story originally came from Jack Canfield and you’ll find links to these guys below.

It’s a real pleasure to share the same story with you here because I think it beautiful showcases the power of vision, imagination, having a dream and pursuing it.

  

Tweet it out peeps: “There is nothing like a dream to create the future” – Victor Hugo via @PearlGraceLife

So, here it goes…

There’s a man named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in Santa Cedro.

Standing before a group of people at a fundraising event, Monty tells the story of a young man who is the son of a roaming horse trainer who would go from stable to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch training horses.

As a result the boy’s high school career was continually interrupted. When he was a senior he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted to be when he grew up.

That evening he wrote a 7 page paper describing his goal of someday owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and even drew a diagram of a 200 acre ranch showing the location of all the buildings, the stables and the track.

Then he drew a detailed floor plan of a 4000 sq ft house that would sit on the 200 acre dream ranch. He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he proudly handed it to the teacher.

Two days later he received his paper back.

On the front of the page was a large red F with a note that read “See me after class”.

The boy with a dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, “Why did I receive an F?”

The teacher said, “This is an unrealistic goal for a boy like you. You have no money. You come from a nomadic family. You have no resources. Owning a horse ranch requires lots of money. You have to buy the land. You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you’ll have to pay large stud fees. There’s no way you could ever do it.”

Then the teacher added, “If you will re-write the paper with a more realistic goal I will reconsider your grade.”

The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father what he should do. His father said, “Look, son, you have to make up your mind on this however I think it’s a very important decision for you.”

Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same paper, making no changes at all. He said, ” You keep the F, I’ll keep my dream.”

Monty then turned to the assembled group and said I tell you this story because I am that boy and you are sitting in my 4000 sq ft ranch house in the middle of my 200 acre horse ranch.

I still have that school paper framed over the fireplace. He added the best part of the story is that 2 summers ago that same school teacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week.

When the teacher was leaving he said, “Look, Monty, I can tell you this now. When I was your teacher I was something of a dream-stealer. During those years I stole a lot of kids dreams. Fortunately, you had enough gumption to not give up on yours.”

So, as we wrap up our chat today, I want to urge you to never be discouraged and never let anyone steal your dream, nor you theirs for that matter.

Let’s take extra care of the dreams and goals of our kids.

Their spirits are so precious so let’s support them as much as possible. Giving them permission to fantasise, pretend, imagine and dream those wildly ambitious, sensationally unbelievable and extraordinary dreams. Who knows, they may very well come true… wouldn’t that be amazing!

Oh, and in case you were wondering, “what’s with the Katy Perry vid?” Well, it’s there as a gentle reminder of how incredible and unique you truly are. You know, in case you forgot!

So, as Katy says, go and, “let your colours burst.”

With my love, always,
Nat x

Please note: the story, the names, references and entire passage is property of Darren Hardy from his program, Living Your Best Year Ever. Pearl Grace Life does not take any credit for it – I just love it’s message and believe such messages are worth sharing.      

For more on Darren Hardy check out his blog here and to learn more about Jack Canfield head here.

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Pearl Grace Life, Playtime

Playtime

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Playtime

Pearl Grace Life, playtimeI saw an awesome tweet the other day that I loved so much that I faved and retweeted it. And now I’d like to share it with you.

It was a simple question that went like this, “Can you remember who you were before the world told you who you should be?”

I thought it was so beautiful and a nourishing piece of food for thought.

So many people in the world are living only a fraction of the life they dreamed possible when they were little.

So many of us have resided ourselves to a life of doing the mundane, living a life of mediocrity and being reliant on the behaviours, attitudes and opinions of other people to determine our own happiness and sense of self-worth.

Over time our idea of what is actually possible in the world and our true potential become skewed after years of conditioning from outside forces.

So, when I saw the tweet, it reminded me of the things I used to love doing when I was a kid; playing dress up – usually like my favourite pop star – and dancing around my living room.

I loved pretending to cook in my imaginary kitchen, which was situated on the top bunk of the bunk bed I shared with my sister. I would then serve my culinary masterpieces to my customers who were seated on the bed below. (You know what, I still think that’s a pretty cool idea for an 8 year old!)

I would secretly re-organise the furniture in the lounge whenever my folks were out and pretend to be the American gymnast Dominique Dawes and I’d flip and roll over the floor and chairs.

I would make up a ton of stories in my head with different characters, write scripts and perform my “hit show” to my mum while she cooked dinner. (No wonder my folks sent me to theatre school).

Needless to say I was a carefree dreamer and was open about expressing it.

Then mum got sick and by the time I was 19 both my parents had passed away.

Tweet it out peeps: “Logic will take you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.” – Albert Einstein via @PearlGraceLife

As you can imagine I had to grow up very fast. And for the next decade of my life I got “serious”.

I became serious about getting my degree, getting a job, working hard, buying my first home.

It was what I felt I had to do.

But I love how the universe conspires on your behalf. And sometimes the most unexpected of events, such as falling pregnant, can offer you an opportunity to reassess your life choices and purpose.

I had no idea how much of an impact having a baby would have on my life.

Ealy has been – and remains to be – the single greatest teacher I’ve ever had.

He teaches me about the beauty of life every single day and his sense of wonder is inspiring.

When I look at him I’m reminded of how fascinating and incredible little people are.

They find joy in the simplest of things. They are fascinated by everything, hungry to learnPearl Grace Life, Playtime post and approach everyday with a sense of wonder.

Ealy finds everything enchanting from the crawling ants to the grazing cows.

He marvels at the rain and the sound of wind. And he’s amazed by trees and would chase after butterflies all day long if I’d let him.

He appreciates these precious gifts that the world offers up for free all the time.

And yet, I don’t think I stopped to smell the fresh air once in my 20’s. I was simply “too busy”, too preoccupied and too old.

But now, I do it every single day. I hasten to add that Ealy has inspired me to relight my fire (Cue Take That) for the things I loved doing when I was a kid.

And now I get to do many of them here on the blog and in life. For example, one of the perks of having a toddler is that cartwheels in the park and playing dress up come as standard!

Ealy has reminded me of the little girl that believed in tooth fairies and mermaids because she was also the same little girl who dreamed of the impossible.

This week, this month, this year, I’m hoping that we all remember who we were before the world told us who we ought to be.

Take a trip down the memory lane of your childhood and remember the things that use to bring you joy, make you happy and gave you the feeling of flying high on the wings of life.

Our boundless imaginations are still swirling around inside of us. They are in our hearts and minds our entire lives waiting for permission to soar.

Show the world who you really are. Let your inner child out to play because it’s playtime, baby.

Now, I’d love to hear your thoughts about this. Do feel like your creative, spirited wings have been clipped by society or the people around you? If so, how do you let your inner child out to play? 

Share with me in the comments below.

All my love,
Nat x

Quick point: Please check out the video (above) by Sir Ken Robinson discussing the need to celebrate children’s creativity more in schools. It’s very funny, insightful and well worth a watch.

 

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Do you have a dream?

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Do you have a dream?

Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day to my American cousins! 

I’ve always found it very fitting that the US, and the world for the matter, celebrate this incredible man’s life and legacy at the start of the year.

Many of us set our goals in January for the year ahead.

And by this point (two weeks in) we’re either still buzzing with fire and determination or we’re starting to feel a little deflated, unmotivated and close to throwing in the towel.

One of the biggest reasons why people don’t achieve their goals is because they lack a big enough reason for attaining it.

I think as a society we’re programmed to believe that it is because we lack drive, intelligence, resources, motivation, will-power etc.

And, yes, those things are important but they’re not the biggest reason why people don’t reach their goals by December 31st.

The real reason is because their why isn’t big enough.

I think the reason why you want to lose weight, get fit, become wealthy, have a loving and passionate relationship with your partner, or have a successful business, needs to be bigger than, “because you really want it.

In fact it’s gotta span far and beyond you.

The reason has to be so big, so deep, so necessary, so certain that anything but its attainment is unimaginable, unconceivable or worse unbearable.

Whatever your dream is for 2015 – be it big or small, after all size doesn’t mattermake sure that you have a red hot, chilli burning, mouth-watering reason for achieving it.

There are a ton of resources on this that I’ll share with you on the Resources page soon.

Now, Dr. King’s dream was Big, Audacious, Scary (some feared) and Impossible (many thought) but he was relentless in his pursuit of it.

His dream was not just limited to the borders of America but transcended across the pond to the four corners of the world.

In fact his dream was so big and so necessary that he was prepared to risk his life for it’s attainment.

How’s that for conviction!

So, what’s your dream for 2015 and what’s your why? Tell us in the comments below.

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Woman befriends a homeless man

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Woman befriends a homeless man in Brazil… See what happens next

Fancy watching something special?

Check out this video.

The kindness shown by a one young woman transformed the life of a homeless man in an extraordinary way.

No-one would’ve guessed how the story would unfold. It’s truly beautiful.

This is a perfect way to start your week, especially for the weary heart that is lacking hope and faith – know that the world is full of possibility.

Watch it now!

Some background…

Raimundo Arruda Sobrinho was homeless in São Paulo, Brazil, for nearly 35 years.

He became locally known for sitting in the same spot and writing every day.

In April 2011, he was befriended by a young woman named Shalla Monteiro.

She was so impressed by his poetry that she decided to help him with his dream of publishing a book.

She created a Facebook Page to feature Raimundo’s writing.

Neither could have expected what happened next.

Diggin’ this shizzle?  

Then share this video, people! You know the drill, tell your friends and those you love.

Pass on the hope and inspire others to do the same.

Till next time x

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Big dream envy, small dream shame

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Big dream envy, small dream shame

I’m curious, are you embarrassed about the size of your dream?

Pearl Grace Life, DreamMy parents were hardworking people. They both had a strong work ethic and were experts in their fields.

They were committed to raising their kids and creating a stable and loving environment for us to learn and grow. I believe these were their primary goals. These were their dreams and they were happy fulfilling them.

Today, we hardly bat an eyelid when we hear stories of people wanting to reverse global warming, find a cure for cancer, or eradicate world hunger.

And these aren’t wild and outlandish fantasies. There are people all over the world passionately committing themselves to championing these causes.

These aren’t only dreams belonging to the rich and famous either. Folks like you and me, our friends and family members have expressed dreams to change the world in their own unique way.

By today’s standards perhaps my parents dreams might be considered rather humble.

It seems like we live in a time where having big and audacious dreams have become the rule and not the exception.

So much so that it’s not surprising that some of us are left feeling a little embarrassed by the size of our dreams.

I’ve been wondering why this is?

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Passion

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Passion

Have you ever wondered what your true calling was or why you were put on the planet?

If this is an easy question for you to answer then awesome!

But if you’ve ever struggled to answer this or if your answer is a little more complex then guess what that’s awesome too!

Pearl Grace blog, passionIf you’re a creative multifaceted spirit with many passions then I think it’s worth knowing that it’s perfectly “normal” to love many things because passion is changeable.

You can love one thing one minute and another thing the next.

You can love doing one thing your entire life or love many different things throughout your journey.

Now, I wish I knew this when I was younger because my journey to finding my purpose in life would’ve been so much easier.

Here’s the thing, no matter how many vision boards you create or self-help books you read or inspirational programs you sign up to you will never find your passion until you look within yourself and hone in on the things that you love.

Let me elaborate.

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